You might feel in total despair. The person you have worshiped, sacrificed for and gave all of yourself to now wants to leave you. You got angry but they just got angry back. You tried to beg for forgiveness but it only made them more steadfast in their resolve. You tried everything and promised to do anything to make the relationship work, yet it was like speaking to a stone wall. They want nothing to do with you, they don’t love you and they don’t want to be with you. Does this sound like what you are going through right now? If so you must be in deep suffering. I know, because I have been there too and I know what it is like. You feel as if the situation is impossible and that there is no chance of rescue or reconciliation. You are resigned to your “Karma” of suffering and loneliness and feel as if this will be your “Fate” forever. However, what you don’t realize is that this is your golden opportunity to turn the impossible into the possible.

This is your “Karma” you have been having the same relationship, only with different people, since the beginning of time. You might have a terrible sense of sadness or guilt about things from your past. You might deep down even feel as if you don’t deserve to be loved. These negative memories have been working on you in the background of your mind and causing the effects you are seeing now. No matter how hard you tried to depress them they have once again manifested themselves in your life usually as a failed relationship in love, work or family. So how do we stop this cycle and make sure it never happens again?

First understand that there are two of you. There is the old negative depressed you and the new beautiful happy you. The old you wants you to feel worthless, it wants you to hurt and punish yourself for all the bad things you have done. The new you is full of value and happiness and wants to care and help others. The first person you must help is the old you. With sincere compassion take that old negative person that you were and set them free to play the day away without a care in the world. Understand that you were only trying to protect yourself and that you owe an eternal debt of gratitude to the person you used to be, without them you would never have become the person you are today. You are stronger now and don’t need to be protected. You can overcome any obstacle no matter how impenatrable it may seem. The new you will advance courageously like a lion and tackle any problem with ease. The new you will make the impossible possible.

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